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In our busy lives we can sometimes miss the beauty and goodness contained in the everyday around us, in all the people we meet, and in ourselves. Yet, as Morrissey put it so well, "I am human and need to be loved, just like everybody else does". In giving love to others, and to ourselves, we might be nourished and strengthened for the tasks of life that lie ahead.
The text of my address on this topic is below. Alternatively, you might wish to listen to a recording of it, by clicking the 'SoundCloud' link at the top of this post.
“A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and
started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach
pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time,
since it was rush hour, it was calculated that 1,100 people went through the
station, most of them on their way to work.
Three minutes went by, and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, and stopped for a few seconds, and then hurried up to meet his schedule.
A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping, and continued to walk.
A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.
The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried, but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally, the mother pushed hard, and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.
In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money, but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the most talented musicians in the world. He had just played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth $3.5 million dollars.
Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.
This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and priorities of people.
The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?
One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?”
Three minutes went by, and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, and stopped for a few seconds, and then hurried up to meet his schedule.
A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping, and continued to walk.
A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.
The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried, but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally, the mother pushed hard, and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.
In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money, but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the most talented musicians in the world. He had just played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth $3.5 million dollars.
Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.
This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and priorities of people.
The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?
One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?”
I was alerted to this story in a recent Facebook
post. The glory of the internet.
But some of you may already know of it. It took place in 2007, and was, as said, devised
by the Washington Post as a study on priorities and perceptions. The authors won the Pulitzer Prize for their
work. The authors had identified a gap
in the way we appreciate the world, in the way we seek to define and
pigeon-hole beauty, and art, and worthwhile things.
Although this is of course an extreme example, I suspect
that we can all too often rush through life, missing the small beauties and
treasures out there for the taking. At
this time, a damp grey January, we are often even less inclined than usual to
dwell on the possibility of beauty all around.
We are persuaded by our own untested assumptions that all is dead, dying
and decayed. The promise of Spring may
be there, but there isn’t a lot to see right now.
James Roose-Evans, in our first reading this morning,
talked of the importance of recognising the presence of God in everything
around us. For him, the phrase, ‘thou, O
Lord, art in the midst of us’ is the mantra he suggests is repeated to remind
us of the integral beauty of the world.
For many of course, the notion of ‘O Lord’ will not work
so readily, but the principle of looking for, and finding, the presence of
goodness and beauty in all still stands.
For some, perhaps, the mantra ‘the most beautiful and perfect things are
within everything we see’.
This can of course be quite easy on a superficial
level. If we set our minds to it, we can
find ourselves more observant on our walks.
We will spot the hidden flowers nestling in old walls. We might notice the long-forgotten
architectural flourish on the side of an old cottage. We might see a sculptural addition to the
landscape, such as the new carved ‘snake’ in the woods between the Infants’
School and Brittain’s Lane. Carved, you
should know, by a Transylvanian Unitarian, Andras Jakab, currently living in
Westerham.
But these are things.
When we are encouraged to remember there is beauty and love in all
things, that God dwells in everything, we are also perhaps challenged to
recognise this in not just everything, but also in everyone we
see.
And this is not always easy
This is a form of Immanence. For centuries debate has raged in
philosophical and theological circles as to whether God, or the Eternal Spirit,
or the Divine, or the source of all goodness, or however you might want to
describe that ‘something’ that can appear to pervade all, the debate is on
whether God is immanent – that is, God is intimately part of everything in the
world – or perhaps God is transcendent – that is, God is separate to the world.
For me, God, the eternal Spirit, is too impossible to
define and categorise for there to be any certainty between those two
positions.
Marcus Borg, a liberal
Christian theologian, refers to the notion of Panentheism. Panentheism defines God’s
transcedence, that sense of otherness, and God’s immanence, that sense that God
is here, within and around us.
For those for whom ‘God’ is a difficult proposition, it
might be easier to consider the notion of God as perfection. Perfection and beauty is not just
transcendent, it is not something that is outside of us and unattainable. Rather it is, also, immanent. Perfection and beauty is contained in everything
and everyone. So beauty is
abstract, to be attained, yet also something that is very much part of our
everyday lives and beings.
Of course, this cuts across Jean-Paul Satre’s classic
quote from his play Huis Close, or ‘No Exit; that ‘L’enfer est les autres’ or,
‘hell is other people’.
If you can accept that beauty and perfection can
reasonably be part of everything and everyone, then other people cannot be
described as hell. Frustratingly, we can
no longer see everyone else as the ‘problem’, rather everyone we meet provides
the opportunity to meet with the Divine, to experience a sense of that
‘something’ that connects and brings us together.
In the Christian Church, this idea of Immanence is
celebrated in the Feast of Theophany.
Or, as it is better known, Epiphany, which was celebrated last week, last
Sunday, 6 January. This aligned with the
notion, for orthodox Christians, that God is revealed in the form of a
particular man, Jesus.
For Unitarians, there is often a twist to this
notion. For Unitarians, who have
traditionally seen Jesus as a human – a very good one – but human nonetheless,
we all of us have the same connectedness to God as Jesus. Yes, God was in Jesus, but God, the Divine,
the spirit of goodness, is in all of us.
Immanence for Unitarians is the recognition the presence of the Divine
in all people. Not just those supposedly
‘chosen’. We are all filled with
goodness.
So we might consider this notion of beauty as being
present in all things and people.
And all people includes ourselves.
If we are prepared to look again at the world and seek
the spirit of goodness in other
people. Then we need also to see the
beauty in ourselves.
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| Steven Patrick Morrissey |
“I am human, and need to be loved. Just like everybody else”
We’re very good, as Unitarians and as people in the real
world more generally, to look at others in wonder, and to ignore
ourselves. Perhaps it’s a British thing,
others here today will be able to comment perhaps, but we have a horrible
tendency to ignore our own goodness – even to deliberately put ourselves down.
Why is that?
If we are to recognise the good in others, we must surely
start to look at the good within ourselves.
If we are to contemplate the meaning of a world in which we might
consider God, or the Spirit, or the Divine as ‘immanent’, as being within and
around everything and everyone, then that must include
ourselves.
I do not claim we are each of us perfect. I do not suggest we take this as good reason
to ignore the darker corners within each of us.
I do not claim or even hint that there is no room for improvement –
certainly within my life.
Nevertheless, it is surely the case that an immanent
presence will ensure I am part of it, and it is part of me.
And I need to recognise that. I need to remember that I need to be loved,
just like everybody else.
And that ‘I’ is, in part, recognising and supporting
those things that are already a part of me.
The things that make me, ‘me’.
The things that make each of us, individuals.
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| Thomas Merton |
What Merton is saying, I believe, is that we can be all
too willing to see good in others and to try and emulate it, to try and be the
good that lies elsewhere. We miss the
obvious. We overlook the beauty that is
right here, under our noses, within ourselves.
We are too busy focusing on something different, something abstract,
that we miss the goodness, opportunity and value of our whole being.
Yet it is us, you, me, each and everyone in this world,
that can make the difference. In one of
the apocraphal books of the Bible, the Book of Sirach, which is basically a
book of wisdom sayings by a man named Jesus, not Jesus of Nazareth, but Jesus,
son of Siach, who lived around 130 BC, there is a great saying:
‘Heed the counsel of your own
heart, for no-one is more faithful to you, than it is’
It takes trust to listen to the counsel of your own
heart. It requires a firm commitment to
recognise the goodness and beauty that is there inside each of us.
Through focussing on the beauty within, we might become
stronger in ourselves.
By looking through our own goodness, we might see better
the good in others, the beauty that all bring to the world.
We might notice also the awesome wonder of the world
around us.
If we’re really lucky, we might notice the beauty of a
virtuoso violinist hiding in the rush and rumble of daily life.
We will, I am sure, see things of beauty that we would
otherwise miss.
We might see God, or goodness, or love in ourselves,
in others,
in all we encounter,
By being aware to the beauty around, we might be
strengthened in ourselves.



